The Power of Place – Thinking of Amy Grant’s “If These Walls Could Speak”

This past Sunday, I was privileged to hear some stories told, corrected, and embellished with added details from others who had been present for the events. One example will give you the tone, I believe.

My Uncle John came to the party for my dad’s 85^th birthday. John had been in the vehicle following my father as Dad drove the family’s newly purchased vehicle home, or at least in the direction of home. Downshifting to pass a truck on a two-lane highway, the rear wheels passed the front wheels and the back bumper was perfectly centered on the concrete-based steel gatepost when it cleaved the trunk neatly in two.

Other stories, though, tracked a little more consistently than the hapless Dodge described above. But not without some meandering into other lanes and events, if not entirely different topics. Be sure to listen to the stories you can while they can still be told intact. My father’s were. Intact. But with enough side-trips and stops along the way that I sometimes wondered when it would be appropriate to ask (as I’m sure I did on hundreds of childhood treks up, down, and across the state of Ohio), “Are we there yet?”

But in thinking of the influential “theres” of my childhood, I would ask, “Is anyone there yet?” No Myerses that I know of are at 610 Joycie Lane in Waynesville. I think a cousin now lives in my other grandparents’ place at 120 Washington Street in West Union. And although I feel like I went home from school to 1080 Warren Drive in Wilmington almost as often as I went to my own home, I know that it was sold after my aunt and uncle were both gone.

And, of course, it’s not just the consistency of grandparents’ and others’ homes (Where Robert Frost would tell me that, once I have to go there, they have to take me in.), but there are other powerful memories locked up in places where I slept most of my childhood nights: 374 Randolph Street in Wilmington, 416 Shade Drive in West Carrollton, and then…San Francisco. But there are so many memorable California places, we’ll save those for another time.

Where are your “theres”? And of whom could you say, “It was theirs,” and perhaps even “I was theirs.” I’m writing this as one of my weekly reflections intended for my colleagues. We work at a hospice where the founder was recently removed, and where many of us were hired by the Executive Director who started our office and, it was announced yesterday, was just removed as well. So, as we meet today, our “wheres” and “theirs” have become a little less certain. Our stories have just taken a turn. Perhaps, for some of us, it’s just a brief meandering from the main road. For some, it may seem that we’ve swapped ends and are backing toward an immovable gatepost.

Whatever course today finds you on please know, at least for now, that there are others who will one day be able to tell, correct, and embellish your story with their own perspectives. My prayer is that we will patiently consider what has been, and what is, and ask ourselves frankly, “Are we there, yet?”

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Here’s a place to find Amy Grant’s “If These Walls Could Speak.” It’s a song that’s been haunting me since Sunday: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vNzwQI9eSAU&list=RDvNzwQI9eSAU&start_radio=1&ab_channel=BettyAttoms