Upholding it all. |
This is the sixth in a
series of posts discussing my belief in Jesus as the Messiah, in hopes of
fostering understanding of my spirituality, and encouraging others to share
their own perspectives on spirituality (defined broadly as the means by which
we derive meaning from life and assign value to its elements). For more about
why I find the discussion of our spirituality to be so important, especially as
we countdown to Christmas, please see the initial post in the series. (Found
here: http://deathpastor.blogspot.com/2014/12/countdown-to-christmas-conversations.html)
Atlas trumped by "whole world in His hands." |
As I discussed in the last post, Christians are called to be
at peace, and to be peace-makers. And yet, we are among the most divisive and
territorial groups, even against those with whom we should find the greatest
agreement. If we serve the Prince of Peace, then why is there such little
peace, even for Christians? Because, simply, too few Christians live as loyal
subjects of the King of kings and Lord of lords. We do not practice the
presence of the Prince of Peace.
For one thing, we do not apply the protocol Jesus prescribed
for conflict resolution and relational reconciliation. The four stages Jesus
prescribes in Matthew 18:15-18 require us to prioritize two goals. The first
and foremost goal is relational reconciliation. He prays for unity in the body
of Christ in John 17:20-21 as the means by which others will recognize His
coming. But relational reconciliation is contingent on the second goal:
conflict resolution. By “resolving conflict” I do not mean that we must come to
agreement on every issue. But it is essential
that we commit to an accurate focus and a detailed resolution (in the sense of the
resolution of photographs or computer monitors). The real question is: do we
clearly see the actual points of conflict?
But there is a second factor preventing us from ever
approaching a clear understanding of the conflict(s), much less an relational
reconciliation. Why do we ignore or even willfully avoid Jesus’ protocol in
Matthew 18? In short, we are afraid. We fear the cost and consequences of each
of the four stages of the Matthew 18 protocol. It is a simple matter to
confront another’s beliefs or behaviors, so long as there is no opportunity for
rebuttal, much less correction of my misperception or misunderstanding. I would
prefer to have others simply alter their course to accommodate the beliefs,
behaviors, ministries, and life to which I have already become accustomed. But
the second stage Jesus prescribes, where He calls us to involve witnesses,
involves the potential for those witnesses to exonerate the one I accuse, and
to point out my inequity (and iniquity) instead.
Not knocking to get in, but to ask for an accounting. |
Why won’t we pay the relatively minor cost of admitting we
might be wrong? Because we do not fully grasp the consequences of failing to
engage one another’s perspectives and reconciling ourselves together. We do not
work for peace, and so we do not experience peace, because we refuse to trust
the Lord to bring correction. We believe we must be right, or fear that instead
of correction we will experience rejection. Why does this have such power to
make us so fearful? Because we imagine that our safety, security, substance,
supply, and Savior all depend upon us being right.
In fact, all of the above depend merely on being in Him. He is the Prince
of Peace. And we can trust Him to bring peace to and through us, so long as we
choose to live as subjects of His just and righteous government, the Kingdom of
God. That is the government which is
upon His shoulders.
In a world that appears to be disintegrating, the body of
Christ can no longer afford its continued fragmentation, splintering over issues
that are unclearly defined—conflicts that need to be brought into greater
resolution and focus—which prevent us from relational reconciliation. If The
Church refuses to practice the presence of her Prince of Peace, we resign
ourselves to witnessing the continuing increase of violence in the wake of
injustice, oppression, and exploitation. This is not the gift we seek this Christmas.
Not quite accurate, but you get the idea of Who's in charge. |
Therefore, as subjects of the Prince of Peace, may God find
us not only willing, but active in pursuing the kinds of dialogue that result
in conflict resolution and relational reconciliation, within both The Church
and the communities we are called to serve.
Merry Christmas!
p.s. It’s not a Christmas carol, per se. But I’m singing it
this morning as I proof-read this post:
“Let there be peace on earth, and let it begin with me. Let
there be peace on earth, the peace that was meant to be. With God as our
Father, siblings all are we. [Inclusive language isn’t always as poetic as the
original, but there it is.] Let me walk with my siblings in perfect harmony.
Let peace begin with me; let this be the moment now. With every step I take, let
this be my solemn vow: To take each moment, and live each moment, in peace
eternally. Let there be peace on earth. And let it begin with me.”